This isn't my exact choice of a blog entry right now but the concept has been in my head for a while. Why do i call it love of all sorts?? cos it comes that way! some loves are the kinds where there are no fights, some are the ones where there is no peace.. each one to his own we could categorize and legalize all our endeavours in love.
Largely, I have not learnt much about love. Actually, thats not true. With every broken relationship i did learn something new... but hello! is that the idea? to break a few to learn something? Maybe not. But thats the way it goes i guess.. If people say love is a big teacher and all, yes they are right! Its like your annual exam.. you cant just scrape through it .. you need to pass all the goddamn subjects. Love is like that. Its not just about having butterflies in your stomach and a fluttering heart every time you meet 'someone'. Its a lot more and man even knowing those 'lot more' is konjam pain stacking! But if you want something real bad then u better bite through it all..
People stay miles apart and have a perfectly happy relationship. Personally, i know relationships that have lasted for an average of 6 1/2 years and hats off to them! For me , the concept is like impossible to nail...
But well slowly , my ideals about love are changing. I have been called names and been considered immature and someone who flips love to my convenience in the past and well maybe the 'approach' was wrong.. but then life teaches you lessons and then u add them to your mental notes and then u carry on. If you can apply these notes to life and then make a better day out of it, great! nothing like it. But if you cant then dont fret , every third person is so :)
I dunno why this random rant is here, but love isnt just about age, compatibilites and matches. It is about a lot more things that are way deeper and way to complex to explain but simple to feel... Love is about a lot more things that have nothing to do with meeting, greeting and holding hands... love, doesnt even require an another :) but if u DO get an another , then well , what more shall the human heart ask for, for the world is his and the sky is at his feet!
To the most magical thing ever - Love - of all sorts ;)
Signing Off
Me
Largely, I have not learnt much about love. Actually, thats not true. With every broken relationship i did learn something new... but hello! is that the idea? to break a few to learn something? Maybe not. But thats the way it goes i guess.. If people say love is a big teacher and all, yes they are right! Its like your annual exam.. you cant just scrape through it .. you need to pass all the goddamn subjects. Love is like that. Its not just about having butterflies in your stomach and a fluttering heart every time you meet 'someone'. Its a lot more and man even knowing those 'lot more' is konjam pain stacking! But if you want something real bad then u better bite through it all..
People stay miles apart and have a perfectly happy relationship. Personally, i know relationships that have lasted for an average of 6 1/2 years and hats off to them! For me , the concept is like impossible to nail...
But well slowly , my ideals about love are changing. I have been called names and been considered immature and someone who flips love to my convenience in the past and well maybe the 'approach' was wrong.. but then life teaches you lessons and then u add them to your mental notes and then u carry on. If you can apply these notes to life and then make a better day out of it, great! nothing like it. But if you cant then dont fret , every third person is so :)
I dunno why this random rant is here, but love isnt just about age, compatibilites and matches. It is about a lot more things that are way deeper and way to complex to explain but simple to feel... Love is about a lot more things that have nothing to do with meeting, greeting and holding hands... love, doesnt even require an another :) but if u DO get an another , then well , what more shall the human heart ask for, for the world is his and the sky is at his feet!
To the most magical thing ever - Love - of all sorts ;)
Signing Off
Me
I don't beleive in long distance relationships..and anyways ppl who have been together for 6.5 years will tell u only the good stories..No one gets to know things that are hidden.not even the other partner.I don't think too high of those relationships
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ReplyDeleteTwo souls, their journey together might have a lot of barriers, sometimes the one you thought to be the " Numero Uno" might not give you the happy times that was there in the beginning..
Its better to realise that " Love" is beyond imaginations... Its un-conditional.. If two people still are together after 6 years.
Hey! Those relationships cannot be names :)
Cuz " Love" always ends atleast once in your lifetime.