So i was reading naveen's latest post and i agree with what he says.. I am back after a week to blog and i still havent been able to string my thoughts together... but this post did get me writing...
Like it says here.. "lets just be friends" is a line that can shred you and your soul into so many pieces that it is not quite possible to piece back yourself and still find the nice picture... and talking about this, how about a line that says ' lets just forget that this happened' or ' oh! i shouldnt have said it in the first place at all!' .. Do people ( yes me included) know what it puts the person on the receiving end through? It is a pathetic line! really! how can someone just conveniently delete of fragments of one's memory? ( reminds of eternal sunshine of a spotless mind) hmmm but really... if at all that were possible then we could be making ourselves forget so many things - little things that were bitter but have made us become who were ( the valuable lesson wale episodes)or the times when we have fucked up really bad or times when we hurt someone we didnt mean to.. the list is endless..
Point is .. things cant be forgotten .. well some incidents are worth forgetting( and i know i sound mega contradictory)but some happen cos they are not meant to be forgotten... life isnt that convenient YET! its a two sided thing - yes, lets forget and no, I cant forget! the point is love cant be forgotten... which is why the taste of it is so nice and refreshing and warm.. any kinda love cant be forgotten cos its a beauty - to be in love, to be able to love, to be loved.. dont ever demean it by making statements like ' lets just forget it happened'.. you dunno how it leaves one feeling... its like going through the entire road and saying hey the trip wasnt worth it or something like that... i guess i am making sense and if i am not, its not like i care too much to do so :)
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well it does make sense .. if a day comes when people will be able to manipulate almost everythin .. right frm the gene decidin wht disease my kid shd get to wht thoughts i need to remember .. i wudnt want to use them coz i think my life is better with these imperfections .. rather these imperfections is life ..
ReplyDelete(wht a cliche :/)
@s7sara :
ReplyDeletewell truly said. these imperfections make life en eventful thing...
Wish we had an eraser which can wipe off things..just being frends!! dunno how people can tell that, but then there is a point in life when u may run into ur ex and need to be just friends or colleagues.
ReplyDeleteI guess more than forgetting the past it may be our commitment to the our current partnet, which would make us fine with just being friends.
heyyy .. it has been looong since ur last post .. so i thought why not keep my greader live with ur blog.. so i decided i will post here .. but since i cannot do that i am adding it as a comment .. yep right am gonna develop a commentary blog within this blog .. parasitic bloggin® i call it ..
ReplyDeletehmm well the host shd first approve for this to work ..
@s7sara... dunno if i'd approve it or not.. so let it be for the time being :) i am not entirely thinking right to approve of this
ReplyDeletehmm .. :D
ReplyDeletedhanks for letting the parasite be ..
couple of things .. i think that ur last post in mirchi is good ..
http://www.radiomirchi.com/rj_show_blogs.php?bid=2849&rid=5373&rname=Anjana
well nice thought but then i dont agree with the ghajini one ..
and definetly you look lik velma ..
I Didn't wanna drop a word here on the comments section.. Reason why is that I believe that you meant everything you said here..
ReplyDeleteComment.. Too small a word